Tips or Gifts?

A gift or a tip?  I received another message asking me if gifts or tips are necessary?  To quote many providers websites "It is not required but it is always appreciated."  On a personal note we hire a escort for many different reasons, but like many professional relationships that all escorts in many cases often become great and in some cases long time friends.  Naturally gift giving is a part of friendship, but it also helps to build a friendship.  The donation is for there time and companionship but a gift shows true how much there spending time with you means on a personal level and I prefer that over giving a tip.   Moreover, a tip should be given when you go over the amount of time originally agreed upon if it is 30 minutes or more.

In the wake of Blake Edwards death, I re-examine Breakfast At Tiffany's.

It amazes me how far ahead of it's time the book and movie really were.  The studio was on pins and needles regarding the subject matter and the innuendo although subtle was still obvious to me when I watched it at 14.  But re-watching as a hobbyist is almost a guilty pleasure because lets face most of us secretly wish our encounters with providers would mirror time spent with Audrey's most well known character!

I have often imagined in my mind what a conversation would feel and sound like between Holly Golightly and Vivian Ward as they discuss the business differences between each others time periods.  Am I the only one?

12 Days of Sexmas

12 days of christmas (naughty version)

My local ATF!

I am getting together with my favorite local provider tonight.  I started seeing her only 2 months ago and can honestly say she is one of the best I have ever sent time with!  She genuinely seems to enjoy herself when she gets together with me, which is always a nice plus.  I guess it proves that if you find a local provider and become a regular client, you always end up feeling more satisfied.  But knowing I am helping her pay for school and support her kids is even better.

Bravo Madame...

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/melissa-petro/post_803_b_707975.html


Melissa Petro is a hero in my book!

Taking the plunge and starting a Adult Website...

After being a fan for many years and finally getting the financial side of it figured out.  I am working on starting a adult website.  I must admit I am overwhelmed with all the legalities to take care of, not to mention equipment and starting to develop contacts.  I truly hope my site becomes a place that performers enjoy working with and my subscribers will enjoy watching and spanking to!

Excellent video!

We often forget escorts are our neighbors, sisters best friend, and even PTA mom!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HnBaGLc0Tw0

How To Respect Sex Workers : Ms Magazine Blog

How To Respect Sex Workers : Ms Magazine Blog

I started my Escort hobby lifestyle March 29, 2001 by going down to a legal brothel in Nevada.  I had not been with a woman at that point for almost 6 years, life had become so stressful and I needed that pleasurable release.
From that day on I was hooked but the one thing that always bothered me about going down to Nevada was giving half my hard earned money to the brothel house.  I was not big on the idea of going to a lady on the street so where to turn?  The greatest creation in the world the INTERNET, I could not believe the amount of ladies who were advertising on the World Wide Web!
With the help of various forums and info gathered from various escort websites, I realized there is a vast amount of men like me in this world and I am proud to call myself a HOBBYIST!